my monstrous world

Monday, May 23, 2005

Hot sunny morning, set off to school, friend called and told me school closed>!?!? Asked him to check again. Yup is open. Ate mcdonalds for lunch. Thanks to Y for buying ah :) Really very few people in school today, lets say about 10. Was having a bit of cold but got better after I drank some coffee.
Thats my day for you. Pretty boring huh?

Some random thoughts

Some people get lousy and upset when they find that friends have been treating them for granted. Like giving up so much time to the other party but the other party dosent return you the favour. Stuffs like that.

For example

A accompanies B to so and so to buy a handphone, ya know those stuffs that dosent concern A but A still tag alongs.

*Another day*
B ask A to accompany B to go for lets say shopping, but alas A dosent feel like going and therefore cooks up an excuse not to.
Well, B gets upset and kicks up a fuss.

I am not saying that B dosent have the right not to. Anyway it is the person's own business and decision really. But I guess if you really wanna 'give' you shouldnt expect a return, lest demand it. The other party will repay you in another way that he/she deems to. Well even if he/she dosent , it might only be a one-off situation. Haha why I'm I talking about repaying here, friendship is not about owing and repaying isnt it?

You also have a choice of friends. You yourself can make your own decision. If you think the friend isnt worth it for your time, just dont keep commiting yourself to him/her. I am not saying this because I myself have lots of friends, I have only a small bunch of them, and I am quite passive to wanting to knowing new people, and I dont have 2 or 3 friendster accounts.. Thats childish. If we are fated to be friends we will be.

Dont always expect so much, thus your dissapointment would be lesser. However, this is subjective. This statement often refers to stuffs like whether the girl likes you or guy likes you things like that. If the girl really likes you, and you dont expect much, HEY you are better off! If she dosent, you can still be good friends.. Either way you are better off. I might sound a bit selfish here, but liking someone is quite tough on oneself mentally. Only give more when you are 200% sure of the signs. Even if she says "hey, I like you" You also cannot be 100% sure. You have to observe whether she says this to other guys. If she dose, the statement dosent carry any weight at ALL. Is like asking you " You eaten already."

But on the other hand, on results and other more practical stuffs that dosent involve another human being you should always expect a hell lot. Even if you dont get what you want, you will fall amoung the stars. Results - gold in IPPT, finishing a marathon, scoring a goal in a match, getting the job you always wanted, getting a car - These are 'dead' they never talk back to you and will never play mind games with you, If you work hard, you will achieve them.

These are my thoughts for now.. Now because my perspective might change as change is forever.... well almost. :)

roar! - 8:11 PM
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